Abortion Survivors

Many people have expressed their opinion about the effect of the baby being more important than that of the mother. If you choose not to have an abortion I am sure that good things will come out of it . It so happens that if a woman is contemplating abortion it can cause the child to stop the proper in-utero bonding between the parent and child. In addition, these kids have a higher risk of being periodically suicidal than kids that are “wanted” or “planned.” Let’s say, for example, that your sibling was aborted. The “un aborted” child would feel guilty later on in life and wonder why he or she wasn’t the one being aborted. There could also be a distrusting relationship with their parents and parental figures later on in life. Abortion survivors experience a guilt that is similar to that of holocaust survivors mainly because they were selected to live, while the other person or people were left to die. Survivors of abortion are affected if they remember the experience, know that siblings were aborted, or comprehend the social attitude towards them. There are 3 types f survivors 1) haunted child- constantly wonders about the unknown and distrusts the people around him 2) bound child- parents overprotect the child from the harms of the outside world and 3) substitute child- replaced a previous child and has high expectations for them. Survivors feel disassociated and numb from physical, mental and emotional pain as well as experience flashbacks and feelings of guilt and grief. They are more likely to develop self destructive habits, experience fragmentation and detachment. People with Post Abortion Survivor syndrome (PASS) have risk taking behaviors and always think that something bad is always going to happen Whichever way the mother turns there will be consequences and negative effects with every thing you choose.